Cancer

When a woman gets diagnosed with breast cancer her biggest fear is that she will die and her children will be orphans, lost in a world without their mother. They fight so hard for their lives, that they forget to live actually. They turn into little robots that must go to chemo and must take their medicine and do exactly as the doctor tells them to. It is very hard to fight this disease and , even if you are a survivor, you are afraid permanently after that.

Any breast cancer surgery, either a lumpectomy or a mastectomy shakes a woman's confidence in herself, in her feminity, and feels as if something is missing from her body, something that defined her as a woman. Many women wonder: "Can I still be sexy after breast cancer surgery?". The answer is always "yes". A woman's sex appeal and feminity does not lie in her breasts, no matter how beautiful they are. Being sexy is an attitude, it means being confident in your power of seduction and being with the man you love. Even if many people have had total mastectomy as part of the breast cancer treatment, they can use the special bras they are now available on the market, that have a special pocket that you can fill with a little special cushion and the overall aspect is totally natural. But the most important thing is not to blow this out of proportion yourself.



You must be the first person to accept your body as it is after surgery, breasts or no breasts, and to learn to live with this. If you are so insecure, there is now the possibility to have breast implants and reparatory breast surgery that will make your both breasts have almost identical shapes. There are also a lot of specially designed clothes that will cover the loss of a breast and you can even look sharp in them.

So my advice is to try and lead an almost normal life again after breast cancer surgery because you will not have a life if you keep thinking about the terrible experience you have just had. The best thing is to live in the present and do not focus on the past. The most important thing is that you are alive and so you must try to have a healthy sex life again. And if you want this you will find the answer to the question alone. So if you ask me:Can I still be sexy after breast cancer surgery? I will answer - Of course you can. Look at Christina Applegate here in the second picture - she suffered a partial mastectomy and is a breast cancer survivor and she keeps smiling and looks really nice.



If she can do this, so can you, as she is no wonder woman, but a normal one just like you and me. So  focus on the important things in life and you will realize that this includes your family members, especially your husband who supported you through cancer treatment and you, too. Buy some nice clothes and get dressed in what makes you feel fine and confident and you will see that your mood will improve immediately and you will start feeling sexy again.